Spiritual Direction
Accompaniment on the journey of Christian Faith in Clifton Diocese
Spiritual Direction:
“In our world, ordained ministers and other pastoral workers can make present the fragrance of Christ’s closeness and his personal gaze. The Church will have to initiate everyone – priests, religious and laity – into this “art of accompaniment” which teaches us to remove our sandals before the sacred ground of the other (cf. Ex 3:5).
The pace of this accompaniment must be steady and reassuring, reflecting our closeness and our compassionate gaze which also heals, liberates and encourages growth in the Christian life. Although it sounds obvious, spiritual accompaniment must lead others ever closer to God, in whom we attain true freedom.“
Pope Francis, Evangelii Gaudium 169-170
What is Spiritual Direction?
Spiritual direction is a confidential and prayerful relationship of trust between two people, in which one listens to the other, enabled by the Holy Spirit, in discerning, supporting, affirming and offering guidance and resources in the lifelong journey of spiritual growth and maturity. The material for spiritual direction is not only to do with prayer but with the whole of your life experience.
“With a spiritual director, I talk about what is happening in my heart where the Spirit is moving, if I feel desolation or consolation, if I am tired, why I am sad: these are the things to talk about with the man or woman who is my spiritual director.” Pope Francis, audience with religious, 16 May 2015
Why might you desire Spiritual Direction?
People come to spiritual direction for a variety of reasons, discovering how helpful it can be to share their faith journey with someone who has experienced the ups and downs, the struggles, the challenges – and the joys – of life and faith.
You may be looking for,
›› a safe, secure and confidential relationship in which to explore God’s work in your life and questions about the journey of Christian faith;
›› encouragement and affirmation without someone deciding for you – ‘direction’ is more accompaniment than directive;
›› the discipline of self-examination and being accountable to one other;
›› guidance in exploring fresh approaches to prayer;
›› companionship on the journey, both in the ‘every day‘ and during periods of discernment, change or challenge.
Your spiritual direction will start wherever you are in your journey and can help you integrate your spiritual life with all of life. People seeking accompaniment come from very different backgrounds and experience and have very different needs; our experienced directors will always respond to these flexibly and sensitively. Spiritual direction is open to anyone who seriously wishes to deepen their spiritual life and to grow as an authentically human person before God.
Who are Spiritual Directors?
Spiritual direction is not new; it has been a feature of Christian growth since desert monasticism of the fourth century onwards when people were drawn to seek spiritual guidance through the listening of another.
Directors on our network are listening men and women, lay, ordained and religious from a variety of Christian denominations and backgrounds who are aware of the riches of spiritual wisdom in scripture and in our Christian heritage.
They are committed to their own growth in responding to the invitation of God to know and love them. They have undergone recognised discernment processes and training and are committed to ongoing development and nurturing in their ministry.
Finding out more about Spiritual Direction
Taking the next step
Reflect prayerfully on what your preferences may be when looking for a spiritual director, so we may better be able to help you, such as,
›› male or female
›› lay, ordained or religious
›› close to home or further afield
›› denomination
›› spiritual tradition
›› any particular areas of interest or concern.
Clifton Diocese Panel of Spiritual Directors:
Sarah Chabowska
Sarah has trained as a spiritual director and supervisor and enjoys holding a safe listening space for those who wish to explore their spiritual journey with some creative, caring support. Sarah says, “I care a great deal about people It is important for me to create a safe place for them, to be held in love and compassion, where they can be themselves and share their journey.” sarahchabowska@gmail.com
Jane Critten
Jane offers you a space to explore your spiritual life – or even your desire for a spiritual life – in a secure, non-judgemental environment. Accompanying you on your spiritual journey, Jane listens for the movement of the Holy Spirit who is already active in your life, so that you may respond evermore fully to God’s daily call, wherever life finds you. Jane offers spiritual direction in south Bristol and central Bath.
Jane.CriSpiDi@gmail.com
Gail Ebsworth
In amongst this busy world it isn’t always easy to see, hear and follow. I first heard His voice at 16; never confident in the faith but open to continuing the journey. In 2017 my journey widened and I completed the Spiritual Director course, and scales dropped from my eyes that God speaks to us all the time, through everything around us. As I journey with my directee the awesomeness of God’s love becomes more evident. Every person’s journey is different and sometimes it helps to have someone along for your journey I hope I can be privileged to help highlight God in peoples life. I am Gail and willing to share my time and space with God and fellow Christians seeking God today, it sometimes helps having another hear that small voice. gail.ebsworth08@gmail.com
Sharon Mary Douglas
I believe spiritual direction is companioning another through their journey with God and to realise God’s presence in their life. It is a deepening of our relationship with God to hear his voice to guide and shepherd us. We together become seekers, searching for the understanding of God’s love for us. Together we learn how to discern God’s will, with offering guidance and thoughtful questions to assist you on your journey. I have been a spiritual director since 2009 and have a wide variety of experience within the Catholic faith or other faiths. I offer a sacred space for you to share your inner thoughts and feelings either in person or through zoom. Sharonmarydouglas@gmail.com
Marguerite Holliday
The Ignatian model of Spiritual Direction, in which I have trained, takes seriously the belief that God is present and active in our lives - and that by paying attention to and reflecting on our experience of God’s presence we can grow in grace and confidence on our faith journey. I accompany individuals on their spiritual journey, helping them listen more deeply to God’s presence in their daily lives; and I offer a warm welcome and prayerful space in which to do this. My background is in family life, lay parish ministry and NHS Clinical Psychology, and I'm based in Swindon, Wiltshire! Whether you're discerning a decision, longing for a closer connection with God, or simply seeking a space to reflect and be heard, I consider it a privilege to walk alongside you and help you to notice where God might be at work already. margueriteholliday@hotmail.co.uk
Jill Ireland
I offer a safe, inclusive and supportive space in which people from a variety of traditions, backgrounds and circumstances may be helped to notice, explore and deepen their spiritual journey and relationship with God. I have trained as an Ignatian Spiritual Director and would welcome approaches from anyone, particularly those interested to encounter God in all things and explore Ignatian Spirituality further. My background for the last 30 years has been in Christian ministry in varied contexts; internationally, inter-denominationally, cross-cultural overseas mission work, pastoral ministry and Chaplaincy and as a Licenced Lay Minister. I am based in Wedmore, Somerset and can offer Spiritual Direction in person or via zoom. ireland_jill@hotmail.com
Alison MacTier
Alison is a trained spiritual director and is also a retreat and quiet day leader. She believes passionately in the value of spiritual direction and retreat and is Director of the Retreat Association. She is particularly drawn to Ignatian and Contemplative spirituality and the inspiration that poetry, art, music and the created world brings to the journey of faith. "Knowing that we are unconditionally loved and accepted is at the heart of the gospel message and I hope to offer the space and the gentle accompanying that will enable the possibility of becoming the person that we are each born to be.
Contact : alisonmactier27@gmail.com
Cath McCarthy
God is the true Director at work in our lives. As a spiritual director I simply serve as the channel through which God works to uncover and discover the Divine at work in your everyday experiences. The content of a direction session can simply be your life: whatever aspect, story, or experience you feel moved to bring to the session. With God we meet in holy conversation so “you may have life and have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10)
I travel with you on your faith journey starting from where you are. I hope I will be able to help you to hear God speaking, to notice where God is supporting you and to discern where God might be challenging or reassuring you God is always with us, in the midst of our lives. My style of spiritual direction can help you to put your own anxieties and concerns into perspective and to be more open to the part that God is playing in your life. cathmccarthy54@gmail.com
Dr Joe Neary
Immediately after retirement as a GP in 2016, I undertook training as a spiritual director in the Ignatian Spirituality Centre at St Beuno’s, North Wales. This included the full (30-day) Ignatian Exercises, and an intensive 10-week residential course in retreat leadership and spiritual direction.
I was born and raised in the Roman Catholic tradition, but my ministry spans the full range of Christian traditions; Catholic, Anglican and free-church evangelism. While welcoming all seekers of spiritual growth, I am firmly grounded in Christianity and I foster engagement with the person of Jesus Christ as a fundamental element in my ministry.
I aim to help my directees to:
• Find God in all things
• Discover a spirituality which is grounded in real-life experience
• Increase awareness of the movements of God in their soul
• Recognise and address obstacles to spiritual growth
Contact initially by email: joe.neary@me.com
Gaynor Reynolds
I trained with the Clifton Diocese and have a background in person-centred counselling. My spirituality is best expressed as a journey into a deep and profound love of Our Lord, Jesus Christ. This journey has been enriched by the Ignatian 30 days Spiritual Exercises and charism of St Francis of Assisi and the Carmelite saints, St Theresa of Avila and St John of the Cross. I offer a welcoming space for anyone seeking to explore their spirituality and deepen their relationship with God. gaynor.reynolds19@gmail.com
Barbara Strong
Ignatian director working with the Spiritual Exercises - London Ignatian Spirituality course.Psychosynthesis Counselling Diploma, Fine Art degree, Special Needs teacher, retired artist, Advanced Diploma of Spirituality - supervision (the role of imagery in spiritual direction and supervision). strongbarbara@gmail.com
Brendan Vaughan-Spruce
I was ordained as a Permanent Deacon in Clifton Cathedral in July 2008. In 1984 I married Sally and we have three daughters and a son, all adults. In 2018 I became an Oblate of Prinknash Abbey. My training for Spiritual Direction was a Diocesan course which ran for two years, which I completed in 2019. My role in Spiritual Direction is to accompany you on your journey with God and to help you to notice where God is in your life. For me this mainly involves listening - to you and to the Holy Spirit. I will listen to you in a non-judgmental way to whatever you would like to talk about, so that by sharing your story you may grow, by God’s grace, into a deeper awareness of God’s presence and God’s love for you. brendan.vaughan-spruce@cliftondiocese.com